The Oracle
The 2-5-9 Trine: Friends are your Greatest Resource.
What is the most valuable thing in your life?
Many say their money, their house, the spouse … But what happens when the marriage breaks down, when the money gets spent, and when you are out on the street?
Your friends will take you in, feed you, and help you find another partner.
Part of the energy of this Trine is asking you to look at your availability for friendship.
This might sound odd, but the truth is that many people are not available to be a true friend.
They are preoccupied with their own concerns, and do not see yours.
The 2-5-9 Trine:
Friends are your Greatest Resource.
What is the most valuable thing in your life? Many say their money, their house, the spouse … But what happens when the marriage breaks down, when the money gets spent, and when you are out on the street? Your friends will take you in, feed you, and help you find another partner.
Part of the energy of this Trine is asking you to look at your availability for friendship. This might sound odd, but the truth is that many people are not available to be a true friend. They are preoccupied with their own concerns, and do not see yours.
In order to find a true friend, we need to develop an attitude of service. It is only in the state of selflessness that we discover the subtle listening and balance that opens the door to real friendship. In this process of opening the door to the heart, we also learn the value of walls and fences.
A good friend is someone you do not need to put up a wall with. Why? Not because they are involved in every aspect of your life … It is because they are somewhat sensitive to where your limits are, and accept your moods as a flag to leave well enough alone.
A true friend is like sitting beside a full glass of water. they do not need to pour into you, or have you pour into them, because they are already full of their own beingness. It raises the question: Are you being a true friend to yourself, or are you pouring into your various aspects, trying to find some fullness within yourself?
Family is important here, because family is where we learnt the first rules of friendship. Even a dysfunctional family teaches you about friendship, because they give the perfect example of what it is not.
This is as valuable for understanding friendship in the end. In a state of friendship, those close to your heart will be cherished, but others such as neighbours, business acquaintances, etc. are kept at a discrete distance. This “personal/impersonal” boundary is part of the influence of this Trine.
The main danger for you here is the reverse of friendship. You can become emotionally fickle, where in matters of the heart you are not to be relied upon. Even so, professionally you possess good judgement and generally do well in roles of Law, Accounting, and Medicine.
The combination of money, professional standing, and emotional shallowness tends to add up to a person who frequents the Bondage and Discipline parlours, or similar, looking for a “kick”.
All in all, you are looking to form a cohesive energy inside yourself that is both clear and decisive. In this, sometimes you will be seen as being cold. Emotional people will never really understand your facts driven approach to your emotions and you are advised to avoid this type of folk in personal matters.
But you will be attracted to your opposite nether-the-less. Given this tendency, you are well advised to look to develop long term and stable friendships. These will be your havens, the ports you will call into when storms blow.
Even though you will be attracted to your "opposite" in a marriage situation this can work out well. Remember though, that because you will not be overly interested in how another feels, it can deeply unsettle your partner ... The tendency for you is to be interested in something someone is talking about until you get the idea, and then you will not want to talk about it.
If they continue, you will feel a sense of resentment, as if these people think you are stupid … And yet you so often choose a chatterbox as a partner!
Nothing aggravates the emotive type more than your cold approach, and yet you two are often found together. This is because you both need what the other has to offer. However, you do need to focus on Accepting and Balancing your inner emotions, rather than shutting them off. If this is achieved you will find interesting and stimulating company with the opposite sex, rather than just the brief, exciting liaisons that are the tendency otherwise.
Living in the moment is the great lesson here. You need to learn to appreciate and experience the simple joys of living. To this end you will find yourself drawn to country pursuits, and things that bring you close to nature. (Even if it is shooting foxes!?)
Your Motto is: The death of the past means the growth of the future.